Thursday, August 15, 2024

#BENGALHORROR

 PEOPLE ASK : TILL WHEN?

INDIA , a country of crores of people , a country with tremendous achievements, a country with a great history still struggles with crimes.There is tough competition to win.The competition to excel in every field, the competition to become the best.Parents supports their children to study and achieve great success.Every parent wishes a best life for their child. But what if that success will lead you to the path of death? 

"DOCTORS WHO FIGHTS LIFE ARE FIGHTING FOR THEIR LIFE" ?
A horrible rape- murder case of a young doctor in Kolkata breaks the record of inhumanity . People all over the country demands justice.

Kolkata a city in  West Bengal fumes on the rape-murder case of a young doctor in R.G.KAR MEDICAL COLLEGE AND HOSPITAL. A young 31-year-old trainee doctor was brutally raped and then murdered in a government hospital in Kolkata on 9th august 24. The autopsy report stated,"There was bleeding from both her eyes and mouth and injuries over the face.The victim was also bleeding from her private parts.She also  has injuries in her belly, left leg....neck, in her right hand, ring finger and.... lips." The night she was raped ,she was found with her pelvis girdle brutally broken and her eyes had wounds with shattered pieces of glass .Her parents were denied to see her body for 3 hours.
When her father was allowed she was found semi-naked on the floor.Her full body was covered in bruises and wounds.Can't even imagine her predicament during those dark hours of that night when the world was sleeping and she was suffering.
People on internet are fuming in anger on the horrific case.Several people demands justice for this horrible brutality.People ask when the country will become safe for women.If doctors are not safe how can others be.The country faced several rape cases,one of them was THE NIRBHAYA CASE.But even after the tormenting nirbhaya case, still a severe tragedy occured.Was it not enough to bring to notice the safety of women? 
Several posts , multiple tweets and many stories were posted questioning the day of independence.Asking was it the independence indians wanted?
Everything that is streaming on the internet , i don't know what is true.Every report that comes out states another story.People question everything the government, the system.But the thing that's true is she was horrifically raped and murdered in a hospital, a place where doctors fights fate to save lives.
Let me ask whose fault was it?
The government, the system or the people of the country?NO, the only faulty one were those who have this mindset of objectifying women,the ones in fault were those who never for a second thought before raping her.Faulty ones are those monsters which are everywhere in the world not just in India.

 


            doctors and students protest ;
demands justice for the victim DR. Moumita Debnath



Every year several rape and murder cases occur in India,some get reported while some did not even get the chance to get registered in the police reports.Is it because of the society or the people of the society?We are gaining success in every field but why are we not succeeding in reducing the crime rates in India.Every girl fears, fears the cruelty of society,she fears what if one day she becomes a tragedy?She fears travelling alone, she fears living alone, she fears at every step in her life, she fears what if she becomes the next Nirbhaya or Moumita.

It's just isn't the matter of doctors,it is a matter of humanity.Humanity towards the mankind. Humanity to protect not only the women but each and every individual of the country including the men and even children of the country from those uneducated monsters.We as common citizens of the country can just post stories and demand justice to the girl.But will the justice be provided just by solving this case?
No,JUSTICE will be served the day each individual of our country be educated enough so that such cases will never happen in our country .Justice will be served the day no girl will fear walking alone on the road.

#justice

Tuesday, August 13, 2024

Homosexuality still a sin ?

 What is Homosexuality?

Homosexuality basically refers to the attraction between people of the same gender or sex.The quality of characteristics of being sexually or romantically attracted to people of one's own sex.According to Julie K. Endersbe , in his book Homosexuality what does it mean ? he mentions a definition of homosexuality. Julie describes that Homosexuality provides an overview of sexuality and sexual orientation and discusses the issues and concerns of teenage homosexuals, including coming out, support systems ,risks, fears, prejudices, and healthy sexual behaviour. 
Psychology and Sexual Orientation coming to terms by Janis S. Bohan also talks about various aspects and terms related to Homosexuality.

Various terms related to homosexuality

There are various terms that cross our minds when talking about homosexuality. But the most common and popular terms that are in trend nowadays are LGBTQ+ , gay, lesbian etc.
A gay refers to a man having feelings for his own kind whereas lesbian refers to a woman having feelings for another woman.There are other terms like bisexual which are prevalent in today's modern era.This topic has recently gained popularity.Before people were not aware of these terms but in recent years people have came to know about these terms. There are some other terms too that explain the concept of Homosexuality .
Bisexual: a boy/girl who is attracted to both man and women
Transgender: was assigned boy at birth but transitioned to a women ,female to male transitioned .Trans men can be pregnant  but trans women can't .
Queer : not heterosexual/ not straight.

Society's overview

Society believes God has created human race which contains a man and a woman.Any other gender does not own recognition.Common people have a different perspective regarding the term. people believe God has created a man for woman and a woman for a man.Society has always created an overview and believes that if anything exists which is not in accordance to the society's over perceptional concept ,it is wrong. But is it really wrong?An answer to this differs from people to people.



According to the sources on Google the above image shows the LGBT friendly nations.

is it their fault?

Many homosexuals say that it is not their fault that God has them that way.Also it is true that you can't go against nature and be what you want to be.Humans are God's creation and he is the boss and no one can negotiate with him.It is nature's law and no one can deny the fact.Many homosexuals and people of LGBTQ+ community argue that they are created by nature the way they are and they should be treated like normal in the society .

although it's not their fault , shouldn't they follow the rule of society?
Everyone has the right to chose their life, the way they want to live and with whom to live.Society has always been a Hitler in every issue.It wants people to live the way it suggests but every human has a right to chose his way of living.

The growing culture

From recent 3 or 4 years the concept of homosexuality has gained views.Many countries like Thailand have become a hub for the gay and lesbian culture. Thailand has created a number to bl series that is gay dramas and which have gained a tremendous popularity among the viewers. many dramas such as Kin Porche have gained recognition. Many bl fans love to see these Thai dramas .Many dramas are released in recent years , some of these include-
  • my sweet liar
  • stay with me
  • oh! my assistant
  • color rush
  • love is like a cat
  • love mate
  • the new employ







Not only Thailand , Japan has also become a large producer of such series.These web dramas have  a separate fandom. People are loving them to a great extent.These foreign countries have accepted the concept of homosexuality which tends to bring about a huge viewers onto these dramas.Thailand has laws that ban discrimination over gender identity and sexual orientation and is therefore, one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly nations.

Many laws are made in order to protect the rights of LGBTQ+ community.Many legal laws are made and campaigning done in order to bring out those results.The government has supported and common people have bought a change in the old mindsets of people.

India is a LGBTQ+ friendly nation?

Many people in India supports the LGBTQ+ community while the mass population of the nation still discards the thought of it.India is a country of diverse cultures and different people having different mindsets and diverse opinions. In a country like India it is difficult to 
 bring about a change in people's mindset.Although India has given a legal recognition to the people from trans community , their still lags a mindset to gain rights for people of different communities.
India is a large nation with a auspicious history. Indian history talks about a man with woman. people still need time to accept some different communities and their rights.
Maybe it will take a long time for India to become a LGBTQ+friendly nation.
 


since last some years LGBT people in India have increasingly gained tolerance and acceptance in society.The Indian government have made laws to protect gender identity for transgenders. They have been registered as the third gender population in the nation. Many people of trans community have fought over the years to gain their rights and recognition in the society.

Conclusion

 There are many different types of people , people belonging to different communities.
Homosexuality is different for different people ,different minds. Some treat it commonly while some still believe it to be a sin.many nation have gained the rights for different communities while some nations still struggle to understand the concept of homosexuality.

Different minds have different opinions, no opinion can be treated as wrong. Everyone  has different perspective and different criteria to judge Homosexuality.The answer to whether Homosexuality still a sin can't be given with the opinion of some minds, every perspective plays a crucial role in assigning a scenario to the question.

Monday, August 12, 2024

 MY FIRST BLOG

 THE SCHOOL DIARIES

After taking birth in this universe the first place we see is our home.The home that comprises of our family, relatives etc.We learn many things at home starting from the first walk and the first spoon of food we eat.we spend almost the maximum time of ours at home.The second place we spend the time is our school taking from being a kindergartener in nursery or a senior.The place we learn to write,to make friends,learn the valuable lessons in life.School is a beautiful place where an individual learns the basic doings of life.

But what when you have leave all these things and transform from a school going student to college graduate?Recently my school is over and i have joined college for my further studies.College is good but school was best. All the memories of school are still fresh in my mind.Maybe school seems boring right now but trust me that is the place which you will miss the most in your life.Let me share the best memories of my school life with you.


Going to school the worst thing was THE SCHOOL DRESS.I really never enjoyed my school dress. We had two uniforms - one which we wore daily and the other was house uniform which we had to wear only a single day in a week. Our first uniform was a typical Indian suit and salwar with dupatta. This was when we entered high school.From nursery till high school we wore a skirt and shirt with a tie.The house dress was a house tee and trousers at bottom.But irrespective of all the issues i share today, i still miss being in those uniforms.

         Today in college we can wear anything but the nostalgia we had wearing those school uniforms and flexing them off was something that i still cherish in my almirah of memories.

After coming to school the only thing that had our minds occupied was the lunchbox.As soon as the bell rang for the interval we use to rush out of the class into the school ground.The lunch time was gossip time.Time to have some crispy talks with ketchup.Our lunch was never eaten by us.They were always the friends who ate our lunch. I have nothing more to talk about interval time but many more memories. 


Talking about school , how can the petals of first ever spark be unnoticed.The first crush , first relation is all learned by us in school.The first hormonal change is also felt during our school time.if you are in school do not miss this chance to love and get loved because you never know if life will ever give you that chance gain.

        school relationships always had special place in my heart although i have never been in a relationship before.I wish i had a memory of love in school days but no worries.School chapters are always beautiful and full of memories.

And the most important thing that i gained in school was friends who were and will always be there for me.The school life was best because they were there.I can't imagine school without friends.All those mischief and drama i did with my friends is what makes the school life the best and most memorable years of my life. if you are in school please enjoy it to the fullest because time never comes back.



This was my first ever blog.I had nothing more to share .i appreciate your efforts for reading this .I will try to write more in the future on various topics. looking forward to your opinion.

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